New York is a lot to everyone. And it is not to everyone’s liking. I was reminded of this the other day when I was searching for hotel options for some relatives and I saw a bad review of a hotel from a traveler based solely on the experience he/she had with the shuttle driver who managed to lock his keys in the van (with the traveler’s luggage inside) and failed to fix the problem immediately. By reputation New Yorkers are not always extremely accommodating. While you can certainly find very friendly, very outgoing New Yorkers, many have an edge. That’s life in a big city.
Before you go to NYC for the first time, we recommend you talk to a lot of friends about their experiences. There is so much to do and everyone has a different take. If you talk to lots of friends, it will help you to figure out what you want to do. Do not try to do it all the first time. You will come back exhausted. At the same time, make sure you explore. A friend of ours went to NY by train his first time. He limited his area to the part around Penn Station and Times Square. When he returned, his comment was that NY was a busy and dirty city. Well, no wonder. He limited his visit to the part of NY that is most full of tourists and in some ways can be grungy (depending on which streets you explore in the Times Square Area). Our friend missed out on the wonderful neighborhoods, the interesting shops, etc. No wonder he had a terrible experience.
We find New York great because it has so many different types of folks. One of our (okay snail’s) favorite things to do is to grab a cup of coffee and then walk from neighborhood to neighborhood. There are so many things to explore on foot in the city. The people, the shops, the buildings. Yes there are lots of attractions, but do not forget to make some time for just simply exploring. Some easy walks (in no particular order): 1. Walk along the upper west side (e.g. along Broadway from the high 80s/90s) to the edge of Central Park. 2. In midtown, walking along Fifth Avenue or Madison Avenue is interesting, especially if you like to shop and want to see such things as Tiffany’s, FAO Schwartz, the Plaza, Old King Cole, etc. 3. If you are in midtown, walk along Fifth Avenue down to the Village, making time to explore the NY Public Library, Union Square area, and Washington Square. 4. West Village (also known as Greenwich Village), e.g. 5th Avenue, 7th Avenue, 8th Avenue, Broadway … and all the streets in between. 5. SOHO (the area south of Houston) 6. Chinatown 7. the lower tip of Manhattan (this is best explored during the week as the area is pretty quiet on the weekend) 8. Central Park – can you find the zoo? How about the statue of Alice in Wonderland? How about the rock garden or the castle? Tons of stuff to see in Central Park if you are willing to explore …
Attractions: These are just some of the things we have done that we enjoyed. If you want a full list, please read a guidebook.
High View Points
Empire State Building: okay, it is no longer the tallest building in the world. But it does give you an interesting view of midtown Manhattan and the architecture of the surrounding buildings. One of the amazing things about the New York is the amount of masonry detail in the older buildings. All of the views are interesting. And if you have seen the various movies that highlight this building, go see it for sentimental reasons. There are extras you can add onto your ticket (e.g. a 3-D ride) – these are fun if you are traveling with a 10 year old child. Otherwise, just get the ticket to see the top of the building.
Rainbow Room at Rockefeller Center: This is a great spot around sundown. Go for a drink and get a great view of the Empire State Building. If you are into ballroom dancing we hear it can be a fun place to go for dinner and dancing. We just go for drinks.
Rock Garden at the Metropolitan Museum of Art: If you do not know to look for it you can miss a spectacular place. In the MET (Central Park, Upper East Side), there is a rock garden where you can enjoy a glass of champagne. You feel as though you are in the middle of Central Park (just high up) and then surrounded by tall buildings. On a nice day, it’s a great place to sit and enjoy life for a moment.
The top of the 6s (the 666 Building on 5th Avenue): we know it exists but have never been there – another drinking spot.
Ferries
There are three ferries. The first one is for those who want to stay in New Jersey. You can stay in nice hotels in Weehawken
The second ferry is the one that covers the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. It took Snail many many many trips to finally take this ferry. Both places are quite interesting. If you are smart, you will bring picnic supplies and enjoy some refreshments when hanging out and waiting for the return ferry.
The third ferry goes to Staten Island. We are told it is not expensive as the ferries to the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island – but you get a view of the Statue of Liberty on the Staten Island ferry. We have not taken this ferry. From what we here, best thing to do is to stay on the ferry and take it back to Manhattan.
MuseumsThere are tons of museums – in Manhattan and elsewhere. Pick the museums based on your tastes. Be sure to find out about the temporary exhibits at all of the museums as there are lots of interesting things to see. And sometimes it is the little museums that have the most interesting exhibits. The key ones:
Museum of Metropolitan Art (MET): a very nice and extensive collection of lots of things. Well worth spending a half day or longer. Do not forget about the rock garden (above)
Museum of Modern Art (MOMA): note the term “Modern” – an easy museum to explore in a short amount of time and the traveling exhibits are usually quite good.
Guggenheim: While there are a couple of rooms with permanent collections, you go to the Guggenheim for the traveling exhibition (find out what it is) and for the architecture (a different type of building). Sometimes the exhibitions at the Guggenheim are out there.
Museum of Natural History: This has a very impressive collection worth a visit. Not a bad thing to combine with a trip to explore the Upper West Side or Central Park.
Other Attractions
If you want an experience that is very north … go visit the Cloisters. It is accessible by subway and is a part of the MET.
Baseball games and other sporting venues are worth the effort if the season is right – if for no other reason than to see Yankee Stadium or Madison Square Garden.
If it is winter time, it is always fun to go ice skating in Rockefeller Plaza and/or Central Park.
And do not forget to find Eloise (she’s in the Plaza Hotel)
Plays/Musicals/Etc.
As you should know, NYC is home to much theater. Two common mistakes can be made. First, going to a show that has made the rounds and is dying a slow death. If you have seen A Chorus Line, Phantom of the Opera, Rent, Cats, etc. at home, do not bother seeing it in New York – the original cast and even the cast that replaced the original cast have long, long been gone. Go see something that is relatively new. Second, paying full price for an event that has not just opened. There are a few shows that do sell out and are worth buying tickets to well in advance of your trip. The majority, however, can be gotten at a discount. The best place to look for a discounted ticket it TKTS. There are two outlets. The one that is easiest to find is in Times Square on 47th Street between Broadway and 7th Avenue. Essentially you need to go there the day of the show and wait in line and then get the tickets to the performance you like best. If you want to get a listing and a sense of the reviews of the shows, we recommend using one of the following magazines/tabloids: New York Magazine, The New Yorker, Time Out, Village Voice. Do not forget about Lincoln Center (they host tons of things), Carnegie Hall, Joyce Theater (for Dance).
Food and DrinkWe are not going to recommend specific restaurants as the landscape is constantly changing. Here are a few tidbits … because there are so many restaurants in NY, we find it fun to pick a given neighborhood (e.g. Union Square, the Village (East or West), SOHO, Tribeca, Upper West Side, Little Italy, and the Garment District) and visit a few places in one night. For example, get drinks in one place, appetizers in another, dinner in a third, and dessert or more drinks in a fourth. Notice we did not recommend exploring Times Square (or for that matter most of mid-town Manhattan) for dinner. In general we find the restaurants in these areas overpriced and/or of low quality.
For restaurant recommendations – try to find in book or on line a
Zagats (many NYers think it is the bible),
New York Magazine, the
New York Times newspaper. For the dinner part it is a good idea to make a reservation. For the most part, do not expect to get into the trendiest restaurants unless you book well in advance (the exception to this rule is if you are visiting during the middle of the summer).
For during the day – either for eating or for just observing .. you might want to check out H&H Bagels (upper west side), Zabar’s (upper west side), Ray’s pizza (in the west village on 7th Avenue – even though you will notice tons of Ray’s pizzas this is the best). If you are into nostalgia and want a lot of corned beef, although expensive, try one of the delis such as Carnegie Deli.
As for drinks – this advice is admittedly dated – but places to check out – during the day the basement of Barney’s department store has a nice wine bar. The bar (called 44) at the Hotel Royalton is fun (can you find the special champagne bar – it is hidden away in the place), there’s Temple Bar (in between SOHO and the Village), lots of watering spots in SOHO, the oak bar at the Plaza.
Time of Year to VisitExcept for probably February and March and the couple of weeks before Christmas, almost any time is great. You will just see a different side of the city. In the fall (a very busy season for visitors), the air is crisp and the weather invites long walks. You just have to deal with a lot of tourists and high hotel prices. But there is a reason you want to go there at that time, the city is alive. The week between Christmas and New Year’s (but do not stay for New Year’s eve) can be quite pleasant as there are not as many tourists and everyone in the city is in a good mood and relaxed (with some folks out of town). The spring, especially if you get those days where the weather is unexpectedly nice can also be great. And finally the dregs of summer. Yes it can be hot and humid. But the city is virtually empty on the weekends (the residents have gone to the beach) and so it is very easy to get into restaurants and other places.
ShoppingYou can shop anywhere -- some of the more interesting places -- Fifth Avenue/Madison Avenue in mid-town. Along Broadway in the upper west side. SOHO. For knockoffs go to Canal Street. Chinatown is always interesting.
Where to Stay
Remember that Manhattan (we would recommend staying on the island if you can) is divided up into neighborhoods with each neighborhood with a different personality. We hate staying in Times Square. Why you ask? It is very crowded, full of tourists, and has lots of overpriced or low quality restaurants. You get no feel for the city from Times Square. The other neighborhoods – here is a rough description … The upper west side tends to be a mix of yuppie and laid back folks with some artist types thrown in for good measure. It is a bit more reasonably priced than the upper east side (which represents the more well to do, established wealth type of person). The hotels in the upper west side used to be of the older type – but this is certainly changing. Mid-town (as far west as 6th avenue – and we would recommend not going any more east than Lexington Avenue) has the most concentration of hotels – a bit more business than neighborhood – but you are close to lots of things and close to public transportation. And often you can find good hotel deals in this area. The union square/gramercy park/Chelsea areas are more residential – still centrally located – and in an area with lots of trendy restaurants that are somewhat reasonably priced. The village has fewer hotel options but can be quite an interesting area in which to stay – west village is old hippy (folks our age should feel quite comfortable there); east village will have more of an edge (and a bit of a grunge feel to it – but still safe). Trendy hotels in recent years have opened in SOHO – a place with lots of lofts, restaurants, local art galleries, etc. We would not recommend lower Manhattan, especially if you are going to be visiting on a weekend – Wall street, etc. is interesting but very quiet on the weekends (and a bit of hike to get out of).
In terms of particular hotels .. you can go small boutique, popular chain, etc. Also, you can go old and dowdy (which can be interesting and usually not as expensive) or trendy and small. Just remember one rule – the more recent the renovation or opening, the smaller the rooms. If you are from Iowa and are used to hotel rooms with lots of space, NY may not be for you. The older, established hotels that fall more into the “refurbished”/unrenovated spectrum are likely to have bigger rooms. But the bathrooms may not be up to your standards (clean but quite old). As to how to find a hotel … we used to use a lot either
www.expressreservations.com or
www.quikbook.com especially if they had a special on a recently renovated /newly opened hotel. Last time we checked, there were no great deals to be found on these sites. In any event, for whatever hotel you are thinking about, try to find some reviews – try
fodors.com (which has regular reviews and customer reviews),
tripadvisor.com (which has customer reviews), and places like
New York Magazine, and
New York Times … remember to take the customer reviews with a grain of salt – some of the customers are just like you – some are not. A recent website we have found is through the New York Magazine:
http://www.newyorkmetro.com/visitorsguide/index.htm it has hotel recommendations (as well as restaurant, etc. recommendations) … not a bad site to visit before going to see what is going on in the city.
Regardless of where you end up – if you go into your room and your first reaction is “what a dump” … go back to reception and ask to see another room. Worst thing that will happen – you end up with the first room you are given.
Transportation
Two things – absolutely avoid driving in the city … it is a busy city with lots of drivers that like to race in between traffic lights and who know where they are going … do not tempt fate. We find the subway and buses quite easy to figure out (they usually run north to south or east to west). And the taxis are rather reasonable – they sometimes just drive a bit erratically (so ask to get out if you do not like the driving). Second, if you fly into the city – you may NOT want to jump right into the first taxi. If you fly into Newark – there is an easy connection on the New Jersey Transit (a commuter train) for a reasonable price – it will take you right into Penn Station. If you fly into Laguardia – either take a taxi or check out the bus service (we think they go to Grand Central Station). And if you fly into JFK, there is a subway line (we think it is express now) that will take you into the city.
SafetyNeither of us have ever had anything happen in NY … but remember – it is a city and things do happen. Be aware of your surroundings. Watch out for pickpockets. Only carry what you really need for the day (in terms of cash, credit cards, etc) – minimize your loss in case there is an incident. If you are a woman and you sit down -- do not sling your purse behind your chair or out of your immediate sight – otherwise it may disappear. If you are walking down a street and it is dark and quiet – try to find a busy street as soon as possible. Remember, you are enjoying the city but are trying to minimize the probability of anything happening.